What To Look For In A Restaurant When You Are Travelling With Children

The rain has begun to tap gently against the buggy cover. The first child asks for a drink; the second says they don’t want to eat what you’ve given them. And you’re standing in the middle of a pavement trying to decide on a location for lunch. When traveling with children, whether young or old,  we usually find ourselves negotiating with each other over every decision imaginable. 

Traveling With Children Turns Restaurants Into Negotiations

Traveling with children makes all kinds of decisions become mini-negotiations. Whether you’re looking for a new spot to dine, a place to rest, a stopover while driving, or simply someplace to grab a bite and stretch your legs, traveling with children means almost everything we normally consider “easy” has become an exercise in compromise.

Finding Comfortable Restaurant Options While Traveling With Young Families

While it is possible to find menus with many different choices, the best restaurant menu for most families traveling with young children is often quite straightforward. What matters is finding a few basic options that won’t require too much thought. 

Consider ordering foods that your children have eaten before; pasta, pizza, rice, grilled chicken, soup, sandwiches, etc. If a restaurant has a “children’s” menu, this can be helpful. However, it is definitely not necessary. Many times, finding a regular menu offering smaller servings or more flexibility with sides offers a better solution. 

Additionally, when selecting a restaurant to eat at with children, finding a place willing to accommodate minor requests (such as plain pasta instead of sauce, chips instead of a green salad, putting sauce on the side) can greatly enhance their dining experience.

Finding Restaurants That Have An Atmosphere For Young Families

Take a moment to survey the area before deciding on a specific place to eat. Will there be room for a stroller? How close are the tables? Would you feel embarrassed if your child made a little bit of noise, or would it go unnoticed?

You do not need to select restaurants specifically designed for young families. You just need a restaurant that allows you to relax your shoulders. High chairs, clean bathrooms, and friendly service staff are all important aspects when searching for a restaurant suitable for families with young children. Outdoor seating areas are also beneficial, especially after spending time in vehicles, trains, or planes. A large patio or outdoor courtyard can help alleviate frustration while waiting for food.

How Quickly Food Arrives From The Kitchen To The Table Makes All The Difference

Young children seldom comprehend how long it takes for food to arrive once ordered. Therefore, it is crucial to note how fast food appears from the kitchen when evaluating potential locations to eat. Busy restaurants can be fine, but only if none of the tables appear to be stuck waiting. Fast casual restaurants, cafes, and family-friendly establishments typically offer quicker service due to their more laid-back approach. Your phone can be helpful in finding suitable places to eat while traveling with young children.

Searching online using keywords such as “Italian restaurants near me” can provide instant information about local restaurants with similar fare to what your children enjoy eating, rapid turnaround of orders, and reviews from fellow travelers who’ve experienced traveling with young children.

What Type Of Experience Do I Want Today?

Will today be one of those rare days when you’ll be able to fit in a nice dinner out? Or will today call for something more casual & low-key? Both types of meals are valid!

When you travel with young children, what makes a great dining experience is one that fits the type of day you’re really having. Consider ease-of-access, cleanliness, food that kids will eat easily, and service that doesn’t expect you to negotiate too much.

As your trip comes to an end, you may not recall every single meal you had along the way. But the places where everyone took a deep breath, had something hot & nourishing, and were ready to move forward again…are what you will truly remember.

When The Kids Are Older, The Negotiations Just Change Shape

I’ll be honest with you: I thought it got easier as they got older. And in some ways it does. Nobody needs a high chair, nobody throws a breadstick across the table (usually), and they can actually read the menu themselves. But travelling with teenagers brings its own set of restaurant challenges. One of mine will eat almost anything. One has decided she doesn’t like “anything saucy.” And the youngest still wants nuggets and chips regardless of what country we’re in.

The trick I’ve landed on is giving everyone a genuine say before we walk in anywhere. A quick “right, what are we actually feeling?” on the pavement outside goes a long way. It sounds obvious but it cuts out the muttering once you’re seated.

Don’t Overlook the Supermarket Lunch

Some of our most stress-free travel meals have happened on a bench outside a Carrefour or a Waitrose equivalent with a bag of fresh bread, some cheese, fruit, and whatever the kids spotted on the way round. It’s not glamorous, but it’s fast, everyone gets exactly what they want, and it often works out cheaper than a sit-down restaurant where half the food comes back untouched.

This is especially worth considering on travelling days, when everyone is tired and a bit short-tempered. Save the proper restaurant experience for when you’ve actually arrived and you’ve all had a chance to breathe.

Apps and Websites That Actually Help

Google Maps remains the most reliable tool in my bag for finding somewhere to eat on the go. Tap “restaurants nearby,” filter by your distance limit, and scan the photos before you commit. The photos genuinely tell you more than the reviews most of the time: you can see whether the tables are crammed together, whether there’s outside space, and whether the portions look like they’ll actually fill a hungry teenager.

Tripadvisor still has its uses, especially for filtering by cuisine type. And if you’re somewhere with a language barrier, the photo menus on Google Maps listings can be an absolute lifesaver.

FAQs

How do I keep children entertained while waiting for food in a restaurant?

This is the bit that catches most of us out. Download a couple of offline games or episodes before you leave the accommodation. A small colouring book takes up almost no space in a bag and works brilliantly for younger ones. For older kids, having a go at reviewing the menu together or playing a quick game of 20 questions buys you more time than you’d think. And honestly, a bread basket arriving first solves about 80% of the problem.

What’s the easiest way to find child-friendly restaurants in an unfamiliar place?

Search Google Maps for “family friendly restaurants” alongside your location, or look at the photos on any listing to see whether high chairs are visible. Facebook community groups for the area you’re visiting are surprisingly useful too: local parents will point you towards the places that are genuinely welcoming rather than just tolerant.

Should I always book in advance when travelling with children?

For a casual lunch spot or a pizza place, you can usually walk in. But if you’re planning an early dinner (which most families with young children end up doing), booking ahead removes a lot of stress. Most restaurants are fairly empty at 5.30pm and will accommodate a family table without much trouble, but it’s worth a quick call or online booking if you have your heart set on somewhere specific.

What do I do if my child won’t eat anything on the menu?

Ask. Most restaurants are more flexible than their menus suggest. A plain bowl of pasta with butter, some rice on the side, or a simple toastie are usually achievable even in places that don’t have a children’s menu. The worst they can say is no, and nine times out of ten they’re happy to help.

Is it worth travelling with snacks to avoid the hangry meltdown?

Always. I cannot stress this enough. A small bag of crackers, some raisins, or a cereal bar in your bag has saved many a holiday moment. The gap between “we’re just looking for somewhere” and “we’ve sat down and ordered” can stretch longer than you’d expect, and a small snack bridges that gap without spoiling anyone’s appetite.

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Becky

Meet the award-nominated UK lifestyle blogger behind Spirited Puddle Jumper – a mum of three living in South East London! Becky shares the real ups and downs of family life, parenting tips, and lifestyle inspiration, proving that being a mum doesn’t mean you stop being fun or having other interests! Follow along for honest insights into UK family life and opinions on a whole range of topics, from travel and food, to beauty reviews, home and DIY, business and health and wellness.